Medical gaslighting and misdiagnosis are tragic realities for many women. My team and I are committed to helping women get the medical care they need — and that includes knowing how to advocate for yourself at the doctor’s office.
I recently interviewed with healthy living magazine Poosh to share tips for women seeking medical care.
5 Ways to Advocate for Yourself at the Doctor
Unfortunately, gaslighting isn’t limited to romantic relationships. Although your doctor is the last person you expect to not take you seriously, it happens frequently. So how can we care for our health while fearful of being labeled “dramatic” or worse, “difficult,” but our woman’s intuition is telling us not to f*ck around and find out?
Dr. Thaïs Aliabadi, board-certified OB-GYN and cohost of She MD podcast, is passionate about empowering women to take control of their health by becoming their own advocates.
“Women often experience delays in diagnosis and treatment for various medical conditions like breast cancer, heart disease, autoimmune diseases, PCOS, mental health disorders, endometriosis, and thyroid disorders. Consequently, women may endure prolonged periods without proper diagnosis and treatment, significantly impacting their health outcomes and quality of life,” she explains. For example, “Missed or delayed diagnosis in breast cancer can be anywhere around 20% to 30% of cases.”
Dr. Aliabadi cites “several reasons” symptoms are habitually overlooked in women by medical health professionals, such as historical biases, stereotypes about women’s health, and medical research that focuses primarily on men. She adds that uniquely feminine symptoms like menstrual pain are “often dismissed as normal for women.”
“Also, differences in how men and women present symptoms and communicate them can lead to misunderstandings.”
If you’re concerned your doctor might be overlooking your symptoms or isn’t giving them adequate attention, Dr. Aliabadi shares a few indicators to help determine if that’s the case. “A lack of thorough evaluation or testing, dismissing concerns without explanation, attributing symptoms solely to stress or psychological factors, and not providing a clear plan for further investigation or treatment,” are all red flags to watch out for.
“If you feel your symptoms are being minimized or not taken seriously, it’s important to advocate for yourself,” she continues, sharing five actionable tips all women can use to advocate for themselves at the doctor’s office.
1. Educate yourself.
Before your appointment, research your symptoms and potential conditions. Knowing your health concerns can help you ask informed questions and advocate for appropriate care.
2. Communicate clearly.
Describe your symptoms in detail, including when they started, how often they occur, and any factors that worsen or improve them. Be straightforward about how your symptoms are affecting your daily life.
3. Ask questions.
Don’t hesitate to ask your doctor to explain medical terms, treatment options, or potential side effects. Prepare a list of questions beforehand to ensure you cover all your concerns during the appointment.
4. Seek second opinions.
If you feel your symptoms are not being adequately addressed, consider seeking a second opinion from another healthcare provider. Another perspective may offer new insights or treatment options.
5. Follow up.
Keep track of your symptoms and any changes in your condition. Follow up with your doctor if symptoms persist or worsen, and advocate for further evaluation or referrals to specialists if needed. Your persistence can play a crucial role in receiving the care you require.
Read the whole article at Poosh.
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Dr. Aliabadi has been a practicing OB/GYN in Los Angeles since 2002. She serves as an official gynecologist for many royal families and “celebrities,” as well as instructing Cedars Sinai Medical Center residents and medical students at the University of Southern California. She and her compassionate team are experts in women’s health care.
When you’re treated by Dr. Aliabadi, you’re guaranteed to feel safe, heard, and well cared for.
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Supported by her warm professional team, Dr. Aliabadi treats women through all phases of life and cherishes the special one-on-one relationship between patient and doctor.